Im 26 and married and feel it was a big mistake. I’m from a rough council estate and most of my familys banged up or out and on benefits. I decided my life would be different. One thing God gave me was my looks and my big **** and i decided early on they were going to be used to snag a man and get me out of the crap life i could have ahead of me. I started dancing in a club..and low and behold one of the punters took a shine to me in the form of my husband of 4 months. My life has changed completely.
I now live in a 6 bedded mansion outside of town and i dont need to work although i would still do my topless dancing but my husband asked me to stop. Hes a good man, hes 45 and works really hard to build up his business empire which brings him to the far east for work very often. Hes gone at the moment and I’m afraid to say it but i’ve been screwing around and went back to the club a few nights and had a few flings. I dont know what it is about me, but i’m very sexual and am horny alot..and well…sex is one thing my mans not great at…i find the more common the man the better the sex and i’m sorry to say i’ve gone back to my old haunts and have now had sex with 5 different people since i’ve married. It not a self esteem thing, i quiet love myself and i know my husband loves me, and i know basically i could have any man i wanted..its purely..i love sex. Have you heard of any woman who loves it so much shes willing to put marriage on the line. I always play it safe by the way and i’ve been tested loads of times and am fine. I’m not stupid about sexual health so dont give me that rant please
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once a tart always a tart,i feel really sorry for your husband he works so hard for you to screw around you really are a class act
A woman has sex on the side because she is useless in bed and has to keep proving to herself that she is desirable.
So there..
Run, don’t walk to your nearest mental health clinic/office. Don’t ask but BEG for the next available appointment.
You should try and find a publisher for your fairy stories, some of them are quite entertaining.
My trollometer is making that nasty siren sound…
minus 57 points!
I have not been married 34 years this year
Don’t get caught and you should be fine.
What romance novel did you get this out of?
I don’t believe a word of it.
Say this……”I am a SLUT”
Yes, I’ve heard of her I think her name is WHORE
wish i was in your shoes…. what a life!
have u told ur doctor u think u have a sex problem??
Your healthy active sex life is going to be your downfall since you are married. I think that you have an over active sex drive. Maybe seeing a doctor about your sex drive would help you, but I think that you seem to think that it is ok to fool around, so you won’t see a doctor right? Your husband may not be good at love making but he is your husband nonetheless. He deserves better than you for a wife. All men want a loyal wife. How would you feel if he was screwing every woman he could? I don’t think that you would like it. I am not giving you a rant as you put it, but rather telling you what I think. I am also not putting you down really, but just telling you that you are a tramp to do this to yourself and mostly to your husband. You enjoy sex so much that you won’t go to see a doctor to get fixed somehow anyway. You know this is wrong and I can’t believe that you posted this crap to begin with. If you really think it’s ok to screw around then you are sick and need help woman.
It sounds to me that you are not ready to be married or to be a one man woman. Thats fine if that is what you want, but you should consider the other people’s emotions. If he is a true to you guy you are going to destroy him. Perhaps you should consider some counsiling if you want to stay with him, or even if you dont. His travel should not effect thing if you love him. Do you? Or is this just a safe way out for you?
I hope that things work out for you. Just by asking your question you seem to realize that what you are doing is wrong …in my way of thinking.
Good luck.
Lots of women have a strong sex drive. I don’t think its that you love it so much more than other people. I know there are some who say no to the risk that you embrace.
This isn’t about sex drives, it most certainly is personality related. Maybe those who want it as much, but walk away have stronger impulse control. Maybe things are different in some fundamental way because of upbringing or something about the relationship itself. You are making a choice; you are not at the whim of some drive that is so strong it controls you. That you perceive it so, says a lot about you as well.
I give you no judgments; in return I tolerate no excuses. Do what you want, and own it. Its your choice, so make it and acknowledge it.
Yeah, sounds like a load of Blarney to me.
Hi..first of all you are too young to take your body through the mill my heart goes out to you. What I am pulling from this is a young lady that is searching for something and has yet to find her own soul. You are using men as leverage and this is still leaving you empty,,somewhere in there it is a woman with a lot of pain and she feels she needs to be validated by material goods..everything that you have stated is superficial..big **** to get what you want FROM A MAN??? Honestly sweetie you don’t have to give up anything when you are a good woman from within..you shouldn’t have gotten marriedd bc you are an emotional wreck inside..there are so many things that you don’t like within that you are using outside resources to try to fix them…OK you said he makes lot of money and a big mansion and as you noticed I SAID HE..what are you bringing to the table other than sex..why not do things for yourself? I am a woman that is now engaged and I own my own 6 bdr home estimated 700k and I also own another 5 bdr room home valued at 400k and I too have come from hard times but I CHOSE SOMETHING BETTER AND DIFFERENT..I make MY OWN MONEY and OWN BUSINESSES and have kids..and was married to a man that had your mindset of 13 years and I divorced and all of this I ACCUMULATED so he walked away BROKE and now he is on the streets bc of his SEX DEMONS( i still pray for him daily)..it is only a thrill and you need to get some help you deserve better and so does your hubby..Once I realized that I moved on and now I am engaged and i was not looking karma is awesome I was a Damn Good wife and God gave me a Damn good man for all the heartache…I pray that you sit back and face your demons before it destroys you and just know that I am praying for you!! No one else can fix your innermost pains BUT GOD…and that is ONLY IF YOU LET HIM!!! You don’t have to prove anything to anyone sis…focus on you and get you together…e-mail me if you want to talk!!
u married the man for his money.not the sex. now u dont have it. money doesn’t make the world go round.
so one shd marry for love. sleeping around with drones in dozens will get u more cynical in life.
u are still young, quit this hopeless marriage and start afresh and this time with the right man.
but u are a topless dancer in a bar ..duh do u know what love is? I’m sorry to ask but i have a feeling u dont know.
I’m sorry your cutting your family down and then not appreciating the life you have been longing for.
If one Truly loves their spouse, in which you don’t, they find other outlets for sex. If you know so much about it like you portray, you should already know this.
You may as well give up the good life and go be a hoe.
What a sl@g.
You got a way out of your old life and you are still ungrateful and disrespectful to your husband.
He’s not good at sex – so what? you obviously aren’t a good teacher.
Healthy happy relationships are based on freedom and complementarity rather than need. The foundation for a successful relationship is mutual respect, trust, equality, freedom, affection, intimacy and a desire to allow one another to grow to their fullest potential within the relationship.
Not only do they stop wearing sexy lingerie but they wear unappealing pajamas, sit on the toilet with the door wide open and do not behave sexy.